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An Escorts Guide To Having A Great Threesome
Sex|Apr 12, 2021

An Escorts Guide To Having A Great Threesome

There’s A Reason Threesomes Top Our Sexual Bucket List, Writes Lana Jade.
Lana Jade

If you’ve ever fantasised about having a threesome with your partner, you aren’t alone.

Adding a third person into the bedroom is a common fantasy for many couples, and with good reason. Inviting an extra into your sexy times is not only a whole lot of fun, but it’s also a great way to change up your relationship dynamics and expand your personal sexual repertoire. However, before you open the bedroom door and attempt a three-way with your beloved, there’s a few things you need to consider to avoid your fantasy (and relationship) taking a turn for the awkward.

 

Test the waters

If you’re curious about having a threesome with your partner, and you’re both on the same page but unsure if you might feel jealous in the moment, test it out beforehand by talking it out loud. Next time you’re fooling around together, start dirty talking about bringing someone into the bedroom or sext about it during the day. Openly fantasising about it together will help you get comfortable with the idea turning into a real situation. You could also visit a strip club together and talk about who you find attractive, or get a lap dance together and see how you feel in that situation. Does it intrigue you and turn you on? Does it make you want to watch your partner play with someone else? Or does it make you want to run away?

 

Communication is key

Before you go into a threesome, make sure you have a crystal-clear understanding of what your partner is comfortable with, and what part of the experience turns them on. I can’t stress this enough. Find out their boundaries beforehand and do NOT make any assumptions. Establishing boundaries before the third person enters the dynamic means you reduce the risk of accidentally hurting your partner or damaging your relationship. When you’re on the same page and you know the parameters you can play within, you’re setting yourself up for a jaw-dropping experience you’ll want to repeat.

 

No surprises

Save the surprises. This shouldn’t need to be said, but it’s never a good idea to ‘surprise’ your partner with someone who they believe is a massage therapist, only for the ‘massage therapist’ to then start touching your partner’s privates. No matter what you might have seen in porn, trust me, it won’t play out like that. Always be upfront and have the conversation beforehand. Consent isn’t just necessary, it’s sexy!

 

Choosing a Playmate

While it might be tempting to have a threesome with someone in your immediate circle or someone you’ve been lusting over for a while – save yourself the drama. These situations sound good in theory but can breed animosity later. Consider engaging the services of a professional. Hiring an escort who is skilled at couples’ bookings will ensure you not only have a fantastic threesome experience, but that you and your partner walk away satisfied, and with your relationship intact.

A professional will be able to read the dynamic quickly and adapt to the vibe, ensuring everyone feels comfortable and no one is left out, meaning you can both let loose and all have an incredible time.

For me, being invited to be the third for a couple is my favourite honour, to be honest. Couples' dates are the ultimate booking because the existing dynamic is always more complex and erotic. The potential for pleasure and passion is endless. There’s something deeply satisfying and sexy about watching a couple make eye contact while they’re pleasuring one another or being pleasured by me.

 

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